Wyatt concentrating hard on his craft (notice the tongue).
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. Colossions 3:23
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Love is in the air.....
Wyatt concentrating hard on his craft (notice the tongue).
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
just wondering?
Monday, February 11, 2008
He's got it under control
Last week Craig was leaving for work and he went out to start his truck up. He came in REALLY upset and told me that his truck box was wide open and his tool box was missing. Now, this isn't any old tool box. It's about three feet wide and a foot and half deep and I can barely lift it. It has all his most used, favorite tools in it (since we don't have a garage). Beside that, tools are one of Craig's most favorite things in life. It would be the equivalent of having someone steal all my finished scrapbooks. He was really upset.
We talked for a couple minutes and I said I would call our insurance to see if they would cover the stolen tools. He decided to go out and have another look around, just to see if they messed with anything else. He came back in a few minutes later and had found his tool box sitting right behind our van. It was such a huge sigh of relief. And it turns out, after talking to some neighbors, there were several other "pranks" on our street that night.
We realized that in the grand scheme of things, tools are pretty insignificant, but we felt so blessed to know that God really does care about the little things, and he's got eveything in control.
So, I just had to share.
Thursday, February 07, 2008
He's always good for a laugh
Wyatt get very serious and says, "I have ISSUES mom". I ask him what kind of issues. He replies, "just ISSUES."
In my attempt to clean I was just about to throw away a broken Christmas ornament that Wyatt had found and been playing with. I tried explaining to him that it was broken and no good. He threw himself into hysterics and the tears started..."please mom, please, if you throw it away I will be just HEARTBROKEN." How do I say no to that??
Driving into "town" is always a highlight for my redneck kids. On the way in Wyatt was chattering with glee over all he was seeing. "Look, the golden man....look, the carousel, look, mom, there's the giant world." Soon we came to a stoplight with a 76 station (big spinning orange ball in the sky) and a cemetary. Wyatt says happily "Look there's the spinning ball.......and there's the place where they put dead people!"
Tuesday, February 05, 2008
Good morning!
Friday, February 01, 2008
For your enjoyment....
The first one is my friend Jessie's photography site. Jessie and I met in college, and she now lives on the East Coast with her husband and adorable daughter, Ava. Jessie is a talented photographer who runs her own business from her home office/studio. We've been lucky enough to have her take pictures of our kids and family when she is on the west coast, which I cherish. check out her blog http://jessicapasson.typepad.com to enjoy her amazing work.
The other is my dear cousin Harmony's blog. Harmony is in Argentina for the next five months, living and improving her fluent Spanish. She just started her blog http://viajesdearmonia.blogspot.com and I am excited to stay connected with her in this adventure.
Thursday, January 31, 2008
Gearing up
All this to say....I'm gearing up. I kept telling myself that after Christmas I was going to focus on potty trianing. Then kept putting if off til "next week". Now, it's the last day of January and I need to kick myself in gear. I am hopeful that with some work on my part, she will get this thing. If you moms of girls have any advice before I dive in head first, let me hear it. Craig gets all the credit for potty training Wyatt a few weeks after Anna was born so this one's all mine. I'll keep you posted on our progress.
My incentive is dreaming about what I could do with that extra diaper money each month!!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
We got our snowman!!
Monday, January 28, 2008
Our short-lived winter wonderland
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Dreaming of Spring
Despite the chilly weather, today is one of those beautiful clear winter days that gives me an ounce of hope that spring is not too far off. I find myself gazing out the window into the sunshine and imagining about 30 degrees warmer weather on a late spring day when my sweet peas are just about ready to bloom. I love sweet peas for their many colors, their smell, and the fact that the more you pick, the more they bloom. Only about a month til I buy the seed packet and start them indoors. Spring is really not too far off, is it? Friday, January 18, 2008
Wyatt's Dance Moves
Here I am a stay-at-home mom who has been spending way to much time staying at home lately. So, how do you spend a cold January afternoon? Dancing in the kitchen to Toby Mac, of course. Wyatt's favorite song is "Hush little baby", and I laugh so hard watching him dance, it is good therapy for me. (I'm his mom though so I don't expect you all to think this is that funny). If you care to watch be sure to notice:
1. His outfit. The sweater vest and plaid shirt are his FAVORITE and he begs me to let him wear them everyday because they are so "handsome". Today I gave in.
2. The cookie he takes bites out of while performing.
3. The "Egyptian" and "the Zombie", dance moves that Wyatt invented.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
It is (just about) finished
My dad made the picket fence headboard for my niece and now she's now 10 and isn't using it, so we are borrowing it for Anna's room for a while. My other niece who's 14 gave Anna this nightstand. The framed picture above her bed was stiched by my grandma and my parents had it framed for Anna's room before she was born.
A little bookshelf in the corner. I love the antique lamp, it was in my room growing up, and the corner shelf was also my grandma's and I painted it pink.
Her simple dresser and accesories above. I found the miniture white hutch at the Assistants League in Salem for $7. And my mom-in-law gave me the metal shelf abover her dresser, which I painted pink as well.Shock Value Parenting
Let me explain.
For several months now Wyatt has had a problem with lying. It is where his imagination and story telling cross over the line, and becomes a flat out lie. I'll pick him up from pre-school and simply ask him what he had for snack. He'll make up some off the wall answer like, marshmallows and jellybeans, when I can clearly see the remnants of cheese crackers on his lips. He'll say it with such a straight face though, that I do sometimes question myself. Maybe he is telling the truth this time, I think. He'll go on to tell me they got a new student in their class named Tim. He's fully describes Tim and I can always suspect he's lying by the amount of detail he'll put into something, so I come back with, "Oh that's nice, I'll have to ask your teacher how this new students is doing." That'll throw him off guard for a second, but then he'll come back with, "ummmmm, she was sick today, so she didn't meet him yet." I just waved goodbye to his teacher about 30 seconds ago. Another lie. I really think I could write a book entitled, The World According to Wyatt.
The lying about really insignificant things was starting to bother me so after a few other things I decided to try shock value parenting. I read him the story from the Bible where two people lied about something and God "struck them down dead" putting great emphasis on this part. We also read the 10 commandments and talked about how when you grow up, and continue lying you could go to jail and get locked up. (I know, I'm so horrible). Did this work? No, not really. He will tell anyone the story of God striking the liars down dead, but it still doesn't stop him from lying. Do I still think shock value parenting might work on him one of these day? Yep, I do. And when the opportunity presents itself I continue to try.
Yesterday Wyatt was balancing precariously on top of a step stool flailing and acting as if he was going to fall. When he did fall (on purpose, for attention) he landed on a VHS we has checked out from the library and cracked the plastic. I decided on the spot to try shock value parenting again and said something like this:
Oh, my gosh Wyatt, you BROKE the video that we checked out from the library. We are going to be in so much trouble, I bet the library won't ever let us come back!
He looked at me and for a second I thought it might work. But no, it really had no affect on him so I had him put the stool away and warned him not to play on it like that again, it just isn't safe and things get broken. The video, although cracked a tiny bit, will still play perfectly, so I let it go. It was at least 10 minutes later I passed the boys room to hear someone sobbing. I looked in and found Will on top of his bed with his head buried in the pillows crying his heart out. It took me a full minute to calm him down enough to get him to tell me what was wrong. "The library won't ever let us come back", he choked out.
Ok, now I really felt bad. I went on to explain to him that, yes the library will let us come back, the worst thing that could happen would be we'd have to pay a fine, and I mostly just said that to teach Wyatt a lesson. I apologized and he was fine.
Am I the only one out there who has tried this method? Maybe I should just stop the whole shock value parenting. I realize it is not highly effective in most situations. But I know it works on one kid. I just keep thinking that someday it might work on the other.
So, in closing I'll leave you with a totally unrelated quote from Wyatt, today:
W- Mom, do you know what girls do when handsome boys are around?
M- No, what?
W- They blink their eyes really fast.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
What a wonderful day
And, of course, here in Oregon a "snow" day seldom really means you're really stuck at home. We had a couple errands to run in Salem and then went to the Gilbert house for about an hour. Craig got some projects done around the house this afternoon and I have been working on Anna's new room. I hope to have it finished by the end of the week, so I will take pictures so you all can enjoy. She's slept really well for two nights in her BIG GIRL bed. I am so proud of her and yet a little sad that now the crib is definitely a thing of the past. Her room is turning out pretty cute though, and I'm excited to finish it.
So, just a random update. It was a wonderful day!
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
Just my thoughts, today.....
We welcomed Wyatt into our family just after Will turned two. We all adjusted great and life was pretty smooth. Then, on Wyatt's 4 month bday he had his first real roll. By the end of the day he was rolling across the room, even into other rooms and pretty much getting where ever he wanted via rolling. That should have been the first dawning for me that these two boys were like night and day. At about 5 months Wyatt was happy to army crawl and by six months he was a full-fledged crawler. Life for me became busier, of course, but Wyatt was always a happy baby. He took his first steps at 9 month and by 10 months he was a walker. Gradually we noticed more differences between our two boys. Where Will had always been content to play with his toys and basically do what mom and dad told him to, Wyatt was curious and fearless. We pulled out all the stops including a leash (yes, I used a leash on my child!) and a bungy cord on his doorknob to keep him in his room at bedtime. I spent the following summer chasing Wyatt.....literally....everywhere. Shortly before Wyatt turned two, and I felt like I was able to take a breather every now and then, we found out we were expecting our third baby.
When we found out Anna was going to be a girl, I was so excited. I had visions of me and my 2 year old daughter, happily walking hand in hand together in the store. She would hold my hand and we would shop together, looking at all kind of girly things and she would never once reach out to touch them. (Boy, the hormones must have had me really deluzioned!) I would sit in the rocking chair in her pink and green girly room awaiting the arrival of my sweet, calm, compliant, little girl. Anna arrived and boy was she sweet. She has also grown into a very, determined, spunky, fearless, and strong-willed little girl. As Craig puts it, "she's the girl form of Wyatt".
Here is a typical conversation with Anna as she puts her shoes on, yes I know some of this is her age, but you'll get the point:
M- here's your shoes, lets get them on
A - I do it!! (grabbing the shoes from me)
M- okay, you do it
(Anna forcing her foot into the shoe and having a hard time)
A - Help me!!
M- do you want me to help you (me reaching to gently help her out)
A -No, I do it!!! (grabbing the shoe back)
Repeat that process about 7 times before the shoes actually get on her feet.
And on it goes......
Now, I really don't mean to put labels on my kids. But lets face it, if you have more than one you are bound to notice the differences. They are each unique and I am so blessed by each one. Imagine what would my days look like if I had all Will's (predictable, serious....) Or all Wyatt's (I'd probably be in a funny farm). My point is, I know God gave me each of my kids for a reason. I need to focus more on what I can learn through each of them, in whatever stage they are in, and be joyful in the process. If I am being honest, I have to say Wyatt and Anna are definitely more challenging, right now, and yesterday was a particularly hard day for me. By 6pm I was running on empty, feeling like a sucked dry juice box (a term I stole from my mops magazine, because it is so fitting). Craig wasn't due home until late and I managed to make it through the evening. Sometimes I feel like I don't know what I'm doing. Like I honestly don't feel like I can make the right decision, or any decision for that matter, in a given situation. After the kids went to bed I prayed and read my Bible in peace and quiet for a while. Nothing earth shattering was spoken, but I did feel a whole lot better about myself as a mom. The skill of parenting is something I'm sure I will never master. But as long as I am seeking the Master in it, I know I can't go wrong.
I truly thank him for each of my children. I am not at all worthy, but He has shown great love for me in letting me mold and shape these three.
Saturday, January 05, 2008
Cruella de Ville
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
Happy New Year!
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Cousins....
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Sew like crazy
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Oh.....my.....gosh!
Every once in a while Anna will look at me with big eyes and say this. It's cute and a little frightening at the same time, but I have no doubts about where she learned it :)
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Santa
Monday, December 17, 2007
I just turned 31
31 things I thought of on our way home from the coast that I am thankful for on my 31st Birthday:
1. Jesus, my Savior
2. Craig, my support
3. Will, my helper
4. Wyatt, my comic relief
5. Anna, my snuggle girl
7. coffee every morning
8. a warm bed
9. my backyard
10. my church family
11. growing up memories
12. hugs and kisses
13. my in-laws (they're great!)
14. pictures
15. books
16. music and singing with Craig
17. family that loves me
18. phone calls from friends
19. hearing "I love you mom"
20. my college experience
21. my Bible
22. freedom
23. hot showers
24. the rain
25. my home
26. my piano
27. my freckles
28. people's individualities
29. healthy kids
30. my siblings
31. the outdoors
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Just for fun...
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? Usually wrapping paper, especially for the kids stuff.
2. Real tree or artificial? Real, love the smell
3. When do you put up the tree? Sometimes right after Thanksgiving, sometimes we wait til the next weekend.
4. When do you take the tree down? A few days after Christmas, for sure by New Years
5. Do you like egg nog? No, it gags me. But Craig does so I usually buy a small carton.
6. Favorite gift received as a child? My Barbie Head---you know the kind where you do her hair and make-up
7. Do you have a nativity scene? Yes, a soft one for the kids to play with. I love it.
8. Hardest person to buy for? probably brother-in-laws, so Craig's in charge of that
9. Easiest person to buy for? My mom.
10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail. For sure.
11 . Worst Christmas gift you ever received? My grandma was always giving me and my sister's her old shirts. Some of them had stains or dried food on them. Ya, it was that bad.
12. Favorite Christmas movie? National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. EVERY time I watch it I crack up.
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? I start thinking about around October and I do a good 75% of my shopping the day after Thanksgiving.
14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? I don't think so.
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Cookies, fudge....I'm all about the Christmas baking. Oh, and peppermint mochas. So yummy this time of year.
16. Clear lights or colored on the tree? Clear
17. Favorite Christmas song? I have so many, but I will say “Mary Did You Know?”
18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Vancouver to celebrate with Craig's fam, Salem on Christmas Eve, just home on Christmas Day.
19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeers? I would venture to say I could come close. I just read the kids that book last night.
20. Angel on the tree top or a star? Angel, but it is really dorky so I think we are switching to a star next year.
21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Growing up both Craig and I did the Christmas Eve thing. We do Christmas morning with our kids, as a family.
22. Most annoying thing about this time of year? People get stressed out....relax already, It's Christmas for goodness sakes! (kind of talking to myself here)
23. Favorite ornament theme or color? We have a huge mish-mash, lots of Craig's ornaments from when he was a kid, and I love snowmen, so we have a few of those....we also have sand dollars, a few birdhouses, and stars.
24. Favorite part of Christmas dinner? We have never done a full "dinner" for Christmas. My dad makes his famous Clam chowder and crabbies (crab meat, cheese, red onions melted on buns....to die for!) stuffed mushrooms, and lots of other "snackies".
25. What do you want for Christmas this year? Great memories.
26. Gift Cards. Yes, I like them, or No, too impersonal? They are great!
27. If yes, where from? If No, best place to shop for your present? Craft Warehouse, Spencers Alley
28. Any plans for New Years? None, other than kissing my husband at midnight.
Routine
While I love routine, I have never been an athlete. I was a cheerleader. Never played a sport of any kind. Never consistently exercised until after I had Wyatt, (gained a whoppin' 50+ pounds, I desperately needed to). But, ever since July or so, I have been consistently rolling out of bed at 5:50am for my morning walk/jog. Now there's nothing appealing about getting out of a warm bed on a cold December morning for exercise, but like I said, it is routine, I find I am stuck with it. I started walking, then added a slow jog. Now, the non-athlete me is proud to say I can run (very slowly mind you) most of the way without dying. And each morning if I'm early enough I pass the kid riding his bike up the hill. Some days I see the middle aged man walking his wiener dog, and we exchange hellos as we have done too many times to count. Friday's I pass the little old lady in the beauty parlor sitting under the hair dryer, while working on her knitting. Shortly after that I pass the gym where there are usually a couple big guys lifting weighs. I whiz by (ya---right). Then, I round the corner to start home and pass the courthouse, and County jail, feeling very safe as I pass police cars and usually a big white surburban. Then it's down the hill to the most rewarding part of the run. Passing by Dutch Bros. getting a whiff of coffee and of course noticing the average of about 3 cars in line.
What happens when I don't get up? I am left wondering all day, did the wiener dog guy miss me? how busy was D.B.? Was it really that cold out? I kick myself for not just getting up! These and other questions are what motivates me to keep it up. It's all about routine. That and those stubborn 5 pounds or so, that are hanging on for dear life.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Holiday Home Tour.....
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Steely season
Steelhead fishing season is upon us and Saturday Craig got the bug to head out to the river and came home with this nice 31 inch, 10 lb. buck, the first of many this season, I'm sure. Fresh with sea lice on it and all. Which to some of you may sound totally disgusting, but to me it is just proof that you won't find a fresher fish. While I dread the winter months because of their dark evenings and cold dreary days, he anxiously looks forward to those months for the fishing. But.... I am glad he gets the chance to do something he loves. It makes him happy. Plus, I love fish so it will make a yummy dinner!













